Showing posts with label Deconstruction. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Deconstruction. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 26, 2013

3 Months Out: The Careful Deconstruction of a Life

With exactly three months to go until I weigh proverbial anchor and sail away to the South Pacific to begin the next stage in my crazy life, things have (finally! at last! already??!!) begun to seriously progress and let me tell you, it's getting fun!

It's funny and amazing to me how, when things are right, they just work. I had planned on leaving for this trip two months ago in April, and going straight to Europe to begin my grand adventure. For some reason, December came around, then January, February... and I knew I should be packing/planning/buying airline tickets/selling my belongings, and yet, I just couldn't bring myself to do any of it. None. So I pushed back to September and things began to click, whir into motion and become really, really easy.

This past weekend, out of the blue, I began the (what I expect will be) lengthy process of getting rid of my stuff. It just seemed like the right thing to do. Things that I thought I'd need right up until I left, I don't (like wifi routers and cable modems, because my roommate had her own...) and I've listed them for sale online. My roommate has a couch in storage, so I'll start selling my furniture as opportunities arise (thank goodness for craigslist, right?). My car *may* sell (a lot earlier than anticipated) and I *may* have the use of a friend's spare until I leave... crazy, right?

It's all working. And it's really exciting, liberating, terrifying and at times a bit cringe-worthy. You know? Like getting rid of my stuff: the things I selected carefully, researched and meticulously placed in the perfect spot in my home. All of this same stuff that I'd see every time I'd come home from a big trip, sigh to myself and think: OHMYGOSH, WHYDOIHAVESOMUCHSTUFF???? IT'SALLGOTTOGO! Is there a happy median somewhere? I sure haven't found it yet.

It took a long time, six years, to create the nest I live in, and in the next three months I'll be entirely deconstructing that home and having less than the amount of belongings I went away with to college at 18!

Meanwhile, this is exciting stuff:

 You know, it's just a picture of my kitchen without a kitchen table. Because I sold it. Really, who needs a kitchen table anyway? Desks and ottomans are perfectly good alternatives for vagabonds like me. ;)



PS: If you know of anyone in the California bay area looking for stuff: living room stuff, kitchen stuff, a bed, maybe a 2007 Jeep Wrangler, send 'em my way!

Friday, April 12, 2013

Checklist Checkin: 5 months

There is a lot to be deconstructed accomplished before I can up and leave for my world-wide gallivant. I'm happy to say that I am well on my way!

Here's what I'm currently working on with five months to go:

-The great escape plan: Cruise booked. (Still need to book accomodations in Australia for when I arrive.)
-Lease termination: In the works. This is a bit painful because I currently live in the sweetest location, with the most ridiculously affordable rent, which is why I've lived here for six years. Getting rid of my place is not a decision I came to lightly.
-Sell my Car: Okay, I haven't done anything about this yet, it's too early. I still need to get around for the next five months. But I've come up with a game-plan. I'll try and sell my car myself in early September. If it hasn't sold by the time I leave, I'll take it to a dealership and sell it.
-Savings: On track. (Knock on wood!)
-Cleaning out/clearing away: I took a pretty substantial chunk of old clothing out of my closet a couple of weeks ago. Filled up two huge lawn and leaf trash bags with beautiful, hardly worn clothing. Yah, that was painful. I've also taken a first dive at paring down my huge book collection to just the essentials (classics and useful university books). The rest will go to the local library.

But most importantly, I'm doing my darnedest NOT to make plans. I want to be able to wander on this trip, to be flexible and just "go with it". And I'm a planner. This is a lot harder than it sounds!

Are you planning something big? 
Is it under-way? 
What stage are you in?

 Look familiar? That's a page from my finished/printed travel calendar project!


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